How much should I spend on a wedding?

So you're knee-deep in wedding planning, juggling everything from finding that dream dress to debating if your grand entrance should be accompanied by a punk rock anthem (hey, why not?). With a to-do list that’s long as, it's easy to feel overwhelmed.

As the quotes start rolling in, reality hits you like a ton of bricks – this whole wedding thing is gonna cost a pretty penny! Suddenly, you're torn between the "YOLO, you only get married once" mantra and the fact that dropping $15,000 on flowers alone seems a tad excessive (no shade to florists, we know they're worth every penny!)

Now, don't freak out just yet. Contrary to what Pinterest might have you believe, you don't need to sell a kidney to have a kickass wedding. Sure, those fairytale weddings plastered all over social media look like a million bucks, but let's get real – they often cost just that. Instead of falling down the rabbit hole of wedding budget doom, let's focus on what truly matters: celebrating your love surrounded by your favorite people.

So, how much dough should you toss into the wedding pot? Well, that's a loaded question, my friend. It all boils down to what you can afford, what matters most to you, and what kind of vibe you're going for. A good starting point? Divvy up your budget into chunks for each wedding must-have, whether it's the venue, flowers, or the dude with the camera.

But here's the kicker – there's no magic number that fits everyone. What's reasonable for one couple might be laughable to another. The name of the game? Set a budget that won't have you eating ramen noodles for the next decade and stick to it like your life depends on it. Trust me, your future selves will thank you when you're sipping cocktails on your honeymoon instead of drowning in debt.

Now, let's talk cold, hard cash. According to the stats, the average Aussie wedding will set you back around 35-65K. But before you start selling your soul remember: that's just an average. You can dial your spending up or down based on what's realistic for you.

Here's a pro tip: figure out what's non-negotiable for you two and splurge there. Whether it's snagging the venue of your dreams or hiring a photographer who'll capture every epic moment, prioritize what matters most to you.

But hey, don't forget the big picture. Your wedding day isn't just about dollars and cents – it's about telling your love story in the most kickass way possible. So, whether you're throwing a lavish bash or keeping it low-key, stay true to yourselves and your vision for the day.

In the end, your wedding budget is just a number – it's your love and commitment to each other that's priceless. So, take a deep breath, crunch those numbers, and remember that no matter what, you've got each other. Here's to love, laughter, and your happily ever after – no matter what your bank account says! 🥂💕